Today I took the kids to the state park on Lake Poinsett and tried to have some fun with them. Sometimes I think we spend so much time waiting for ...that we don't enjoy the moments right now. I wanted to do something simple and help them see something bigger in it.
I know, it's out there in that 'not having my expections too high' area.
Anyway, we were riding our bikes thru the campground and came to a hill. The roads are all paved and I just then realized that they always ride on gravel, so bonus! While I took a b-rm break they continued to ride up and then ride down this hill. It reminded me of when I was a kid and how exhilarating that was. I tried to refrain from too many, "be careful, don't go too fast," comments and later I heard Caden tell Izy "this is the best day ever!" Then Sage stops to wait for me (on his bike) and says, "mom, fanks for bringing us here and I am sorry for riding to fast for you." I love them.
Later we spent some time at the park and as we were leaving Caden asked me if I had a good time and I told him that I did. It is always fun just to be together as a family. "It's just beautiful here," he responded.
Yes, he is 6 years old.
Was it was worth it even though they bickered, complained and picked on one another in between the 'awe' moments? Yeah, I'll take it.
What did I take away from the afternoon, I am determined to notice and enjoy the ride no matter how small or filled with 'complaining' it may be.
1 comment:
Of course, Lake Poinsett is The Best! Good for you. I'm surprised we didn't run into each other on the ol' trail. Caden's got it right: "It is the best day ever" out there at the State Park.
love - care
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